Introduction...
In case you've not figured it out, the title of this blog is a reference to Jung's analytical psychology regarding the various archetypes of the human psyche. The Shadow Self, or 'Shadow,' being the archetype that holds our dark thoughts, desires, and fantasies that we consciously deem inappropriate and thus suppress, as it does not align with the image we have of ourselves.
...or, perhaps, it just scares us...
For a number of reasons, I am going to remain mostly anonymous, but you can call me Mr. B.
I'm in my 40s, I have been married for 15 years, and I'm a Dom.
Only within the last 2 or 3 have we openly acknowledged the power dynamic that we have in our marriage. It's mostly always existed, as my wife is submissive by nature, but we never labeled or acknowledged it, and I never really recognized my Dominant side as being what it is.
The purpose of this blog is to document my experiences in my role as a Dominant, this journey with my wife, the struggles we've faced, and other complications (and blessings) that come from a 24/7 D/s marriage.
...and I suspect these experiences and challenges are not unique to us.
It's been a long time since I've maintained a blog, but I needed an outlet where I could express some of my thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of being censored, harassed, or fired, as the concept of a D/s marriage is still considered “taboo” in a lot of ways and in a lot of people's opinions.
— Mr. B.
You can reach me anonymously & securely on Session: 05286837660ea8cb0b8dd22741fa01a9b2459de0be25f4f717fc67caaf5755b620